Well... We made it to 2026. And I'm hoping that your year is off to a good, and hopefully, gentle start for you. I honestly expected myself to cry when the clock struck 12 o'clock, but instead, I felt quite a bit of gentleness and relief after what happened in 2025. Maybe it's because after what I experienced, I felt a sense of... Certainty? Yeah, certainty. I was certain that this year is going to be quite different than what I've experienced before. And the thing ab

Well, fellow readers, it's that time of year again. If you're reading this, you may have just celebrated Christmas with your loved ones, and are about to go into the stores shopping the after Christmas sales to get that gift you couldn't get or exchange it for something even better. Or you may be getting ready to celebrate the first night of Kwanzaa within your community. Or you may not even be in the holiday mood this year and are just doing some intense self-care or just

December can be viewed as quite the month for a lot of people. Obviously, it's because of the holiday season - Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Christmas, New Year's Eve, and many more holidays in between. But it's also the time of month when people start to plan for next year - New goals, as it were. It's the month where we look back at what worked and what didn't work. What we accomplished and what we still need to work on. What happened that went so well, and what happened that made

The last time I wrote to you I talked about a major phenomenon that's taking the world by storm: K-Pop Demon Hunters. This time, in case you haven't figured it out by the title, there's another phenomenon that's taking the world by storm, and it's one that's a bit near and dear to my heart. Take a wild guess what that might be: And also... Yeah. All of us are defying gravity, saying thank goodness, and being changed for good because of these two massive blockbust

So, as someone who is learning to go against the tides in terms of trends, particularly in fashion, there's one trend that I simply couldn't escape. In fact, it's hard for any of us to escape this trend. But here's the thing: It's not so much of a trend anymore. It's actually become a global phenomenon, and it's not going to stop anytime soon. Have you heard of a little movie called K-Pop Demon Hunters ? I have to admit that when I first saw clips floating around on

You know what day it is, right? It's 31 October... All Hallow's Eve. It's HALLOWEEN!!!!!!! Quite possibly one of the most fun nights of the year. If you're like me, you're probably looking forward to dressing up in a wonderful costume for a costume party at work, or go out trick or treating with the kids, or possibly head out to a Halloween party to dance the night away, or even just relax at home watching scary movies. If you're in NYC, you're probably heading out to the ann

For people who know me all too well (and for those who don't), I have a passion for words. Which is probably why I excelled in vocabulary and helped my high school win 2nd place at the state Spell Bowl championship. Of course, there are times when I use words the wrong way or use big words to the shock and horror of others. Who knew a black woman like myself would love words so much? I personally think my love of books has led to my word addiction. Sometimes seeing the bi

HEY!!!!!!!!!! Long time, no see! I know it's been a long minute since I last wrote. How have you been? Have you had a nice summer? Did you travel? Did you take some time to relax? Did you work on anything new? Did you accomplish something very important? What's been happening with you? Well, for yours truly, a lot has happened since I wrote to you last... And I do mean A LOT. Probably even too much to put into one blog, but... How much time do you have? For starters

There are times when I hate being black... And it's not because of the double standard of being a black woman (though that has come up in the past). And it's not because of the higher risk of diseases and being misdiagnosed (though that has come up in the past). And it's not because of my hair (though that has come up the past, but more recently than ever before). And it's not because of my ancestry (though that has come up in the past). And it's not because of my skin c

Jane Austen's beloved novel, Pride & Prejudice , begins with the following words: "It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife." Well, if you lived in early 19th century England, that is the expectation every man and woman must have. The idea of marriage, especially of a wealthy kind, means that the family name can continue, and the son and daughter are well-off in a way that allows them to sustain the

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